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You tell her that you just need a bit of support. And you need to reinforce the idea that you are NOT suicidal, when she understands that she isn’t going to loose her bestfriend she should come back. Also tell her not to be scared of loosing you and instead be fighting to keep you here because that’s what a true friend is for. You just need to make her fully aware of your situation so she doesn’t misunderstand like she just has..
If you need any more help drop me an ask as I don’t feel I’ve explained myself very well there
Hazzie xoxo 

Well, you have to remember she’s your bestfriend, she’s going to stick with you through everything because that’s what best friends are for. You’ve been the strong one for so long now, that she will understand if she has to look out for you for a while now.
Telling anyone about a situation like this is never easy, but what I would do is call her over and just have a conversation as normal, then when one topic comes to the end just say “I’ve been having a rough time recently and I’ve begun to start harming myself” then explain to her the situation. I’m almost certain that she will give you a hug and tell you that she’s going to be there for you :) I’m glad that you want to tell someone about this, self harm is serious even if it is only with needles it can become a lot worse.
if you need any more advice with this or anything else, Or if you just need someone to talk to, drop me another ask and I’ll be sure to reply asap :)
Hazzie
xoxo 

→ Advice anyone?

Well you should just be straight with her, ask her if she’s talking to or seeing anyone else, but at the same time, if she says she isn’t you should believe her. If you don’t feel like you’re able to trust your girl then I would say that maybe that’s not a very healthy relationship. 
Secondly you should respect her and not push her into doing anything she doesn’t want to do. Maybe she felt things were going to fast and she just want’s to slow things down a little? If you really like her, you will respect that and wait for her.
Finally you could try talking your relationship through with her, and ask her what her views on your sex life are, After all her views will give you an insight into what she’s feeling :)
I hope this helps, if not drop another ask
hazzie xoxox 

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